My problem with love is that I already know the type of man I want to love. He is in my head.. The bigger problem with that is the person I based him on is completely not in my realm of possibility. Trust me on this, I have 0 chance of bumping into him. I figure if I am going to fall in love, I want it to be with someone my heart chooses. Unrealistic? Not really. I want the man I love to have faults. I want him to have problems. I just want to be able to accept the parts of him that are not perfect. Anyway, here is a description of my own personal Mr. perfect.
My perfect man…. AKA Mr. Impossible to find.
Firstly, he is not perfect. He is perfectly flawed. Which is to say he knows he is not perfect and accepts it. He has a sense of humor slightly out of whack with the worlds. He likes to talk and tends to see more then people realize, but he is too polite to point out things that might embarrass. He is able to sit in silence, so long as it is a companionable one. He likes to read and enjoys learning. He is kind and sincere without thinking about it. He accepts people as they are. He thinks skinny chicks are unnatural. He likes and enjoys a woman’s curves. He finds women attractive in sweats and t-shirts, just as he does when they wear evening gowns and lingerie. He loves to hear a woman laugh. His heart loves beauty- in art, nature and humanity. He is discreet and doesn’t kiss and tell. He works hard, and loves harder. When he falls you know it’s forever because it takes him forever to admit it to himself. He will never fail to stand up for his beliefs but he is just as willing to hear the other side. He has a childlike wonder and cherishes children because he sees them as amazing people. He loves to hear stories. He laughs often and with heart. He loves to hold hands and gaze into his loves eyes. He has to touch his love often, because he cherishes her presence. He likes to challenge his loves mind by arguing on any topics, because he can’t wait to hear what she is thinking about all manner of subjects both serious and silly. He loves to laugh in bed. He has integrity and good manners. He is respected in his work for taking risks, but unashamed when he fails because he learned things in the attempt. He can’t wait to go to bed at night because he will hold the woman he loves. He can’t wait to wake in the morning, because he wonders what she will say first. He is my perfect man. Now all I have to do is find him !!! Errr ..I mean "surf" him or "google" him..LOL...where should I start first???? ebay.com.my, lelong.com.my or jodoh.com.my..LOLOL
